We use to be with a particular person, because we may get a temporary attraction with them. We don’t know about them deeply.Often we use to think about them, we use to think that what they think about us. So we show our so much of love and care on them. Here is the problem that we forget to show our kindness, love and care on others. Here 
we forget to balance our life.
Days will pass on….Someday we will come to know about their originality. At that moment, we cannot see their positive side. The only thing we can see will be their negativity. We cannot tolerate their negative side. Arguments will begin, and the relationship will come to an end.
Then we find another one on seeing their positive alone, and at the end we will end the relationship on seeing their negative side. This will be going on…We will be finding many people with an expectation that they should be purely good and perfect.
We will never find such a person.
Then we end our life by saying like this: “Everyone is fake.”
But the truth is “No one is Perfect.”
If you search for a perfect person, you will never ever find such a person.
Each and everyone has both positive side and negative side.
You should not attach to their positive side, and you should not feel so hard to detach yourself from them on seeing their negative side.
Just see the positive side of everyone but don’t get attached with it. Never mind the negative side of others.
Live your life with everyone. Don’t attach yourself with anyone.
Balance your life by showing your kindness, love and care on everyone equally. Don’t unbalance your life by showing much love on particular person. This will cause you more pain later.
Attach yourself only with God.
Difference between Desire and True love
A boy had seen a car which looked so beautiful and it had very advanced feature. So the boy bought that car, and he said that he loved the car very much. Everyday, he used to wash it properly with more care. He worshipped the car very much. Years passed, the car became very old, and it was not working properly. It had become worthless. On seeing that worthless car, he started to hate it. He stopped his care for the car, he stopped washing it. Finally he stopped worshipping it. He left the car for someone and bought a new car. This kind of attitude is not a love. It is just a desire.
Another boy bought that old car. He bought it as second hand. He bought it without any expectations. He had done some repairing corrections, and made it to work good. He said that he loved the car very much. Though it had broken down, he corrected the mistakes and he had that car until his death. This kind of attitude is called true love. Some people use to get attracted towards someone or something on seeing their beauty, worth, wealth or talent.
When the Beauty fades,
When the worth becomes worthless,
When the wealth turns to poverty,
When the talent becomes useless,
they just start to hate it and throw it off.
This is called desire. Really they won’t lovr it. They just have a desire on a person or the thing.
Some people use to get attracted towards someone or something without any expectation.
Their love never depends upon any beauty, worth, wealth, talent etc.
They just accept the person or thing as it is.
If it seems very bad, they will correct the mistakes
They will make it even worthy.They won’t show too much love in beginning, also they won’t show too much hate at the end. These people have balance over everything. Though the years fade, they will never fade away from the person or the thing. This is called true Love.
“True love endures Everything whereas
Desire cannot tolerate even a simple mistake.
True love never expects anything whereas
Desire is completely based on expectations.
WRITTEN BY SARANYA KANNAN
True Meaning of Hope
Once a boy who was a son of very rich man.
He lived a very luxurious life as he was fullilled whatever he asked. He was very happy. He never did any hard work in his life because he was a son of rich man. He wore a very rich clothes. His health condition was very good. He had many relations and friends. He had no problems in life, and he had no negative feelings about his life situation.
So he once mentioned himself to a crowd, “Look upon me, I am a hopeful person because I never worried about my self.”
On hearing his statement, a saint who passed that way said to the boy, “Child, you are not a hopeful person.”
On hearing this, the boy shouted angrily at the saint.
The saint smiled at him and went.
Some years passed….
His father lost his wealth because of a loss in his business.
He was a poor then.
As his father lost everything, the boy could no longer enjoy the luxurious life. His relatives left him because he was now emtpy. He was losing everything.
Angrily he scolded the god for this situation. He hated the god. He was becoming ferocious.
He then had to take care of his family. So he searched for a job. He was searching the Job, so he approached his friends to ask for a help in search of a Job. As he started asking help, his friends left him.
He then Started to wore torn clothes.
He lost everything.
He then started scolding and hating the humans.
The saint was watching the boy life’s events.
He was knocking each and every doors, but none opened.
Days passed by, but nothing had changed.
At some extent, there was little changes in his life but not very big. The little changes had not changed his bad condition of life, but it changed his thoughts.
He started to work hard. Gradually he learned the life.
Day by day, he started to enjoy the little things in his life.He started to love everyone.
Oneday, a stranger teased him on seeing the bad conditions of his life. The boy smiled and said, “Just wait buddy, Someday I will change my life to a good condition.”
On seeing this, the saint approached the boy and said, “Now you are a true hopeful person.”
Then the boy understood the true meaning of Hope.
“Hope is not a feeling when you have everything. That feel, when you have everything, is just a feel of protection.
Hope is a stong feel of Positivity though you lost everything.
That strong feel of Positivity will take you to a greater heights.
It is not you are a hopeful if you love everyone when you have everything, and hate everyone if you lost everything.
If you love everyone at any condition life is called hope.
Whatever may the situation of your life, still if you love your life, then it is called hope.”
THE REAL VALUE
It was an agricultural field. It looked as if it was painted with the green colour. The trees were standing very tall. The field was sowed with sugarcane plant. Near the field, under a big neem tree, an old man was sitting, feeling the cool breeze of neem, and looking at the field as he was an owner of that field. There a boy came. He wore a Casual blue T-shirt and formal pant. He looked like an educated boy from city side. He might have come there for vacation. He had a guitar in his hands, and made an awesome tune, but it was a sad tune though sweet to hear. That old was feeling and enjoying that sweet music. He asked the boy, “Dear, your music is just more than awesome, but why are you tuning the sad version? I think you are in a sad mood. Can I know your problem?”
The boy said, “Nothing, sir. Why this world is not getting attracted towards the good things easily? The world easily gets attracted towards the harm things.”
The old man showed a serene smile, and said, “Dear, Look at those sugarcane. And also take a look at this neem tree.
As we know, the neem is bitter, and the sugarcane is sweeter.
Which one is more welcomed by the world?
The boy replied, “Sugarcane.”
The old asked, “Why?”
The boy replied, “Because it is sweeter.”
The old said, “Well, It is sweet, but taking much of sweet will spoil your health. The neem is bitter, but it is having the capacity to cure many diseases. Like that, this world will easily gets attracted towards the harm. They will follow them soon. But as soon as they follow, they will come to know about the value of good things. So this world will take more time to know and recognize the value of good things.”
-Saranya kannan
“REAL VALUE IS NOT ABOUT HOW SOON IT GETS ATTRACTED. IT IS ALL ABOUT HOW DEEP IT IS GETTING UNDERSTOOD BY THIS WORLD THOUGH IT IS A VERY SLOW PROCESS”
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Review for the book “For the sake of Love written by anamika Mishra”
Simply a awesome novel one could enjoy reading this.
Goosebumping story.
Author has done a perfect thing.WoW WoW.
Really I loved this book.
An extraordinary story, that reveals me what is meant by the real love.
Author made me to understand.
Thanks for the author to giving such as an extraordinary novel.
Interesting and the worth characters– Bobby, twisha, alex, david and jasmine.
The best theme I have liked from that story is “Love is a feeling that couldn’t be expressed in a words.It can only be felt”
The narration went smoothly as anyone can read it without any struggled.
I will suggest to people who are all confused to know what is love.
Life is a Food. It’s not a medicine.
Each and everyone has their own experience and opinion about the life.
Each an
d everyone has their own style of living.
We are living in the way, what is suitable and enjoyable for us.
Others are in their own way, as if that they are their dreams and wishes.
We can just say the people to change their particular attitude. We can advice them for their goodness.
But everything we can do is only for the particular part. Not for the whole life.
We should not expect others to live their life in the way, we want.
That is their life. Advice is like a medicine to cure their particular life.
Life is like a food. We have to enjoy and eat in the style we want.
This is for others too.
People want to eat the food.
They don’t want to eat the medicine as their life time food as they don’t like that and not good for their health too.
We can direct a good path For others.
But we can’t draw the map for them.
They don’t like that from us.
So, live and let live.
-Saranya kannan
Review about the book “The Sea of Kashmir”
I think this book will soon be banned because of its contents. Kashmir getting freedom from Indian rule is a concept Indians are not ready to accept. Overall a nice read. Recommended though.
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